
Many people are hesitant to talk about periods. Meaning we have reached the moon but cannot talk about Periods. And this is the reason why boys do not know the important things about periods because many girls can’t discuss about periods. But listen carefully – if you talk to your life partner or your boyfriend about this and explain them well, then this is going to be the most successful for you. I give you my own example. I explained my husband very well – like what periods are, how often we live during this and the pain we endure. Now its advantage is that every month when periods are there, I do not have to tell them how much in pain I’m and how much rest I want?
1. The first day means extreme pain
You must have girls saying in the sad tone that today is my first day. Now what is the first day of periods and what things should boys to be given most attention on the first day. Look, the first day of the Period could mean excruciating pain. Some girls have a little less pain; some have a lot of pain. But these cramps spoil their condition on the first day. So try to allow your girlfriend or wife to relax more on the first day of the periods. Maybe you are not sure, but the pain is so high that girls do not even stand up. So this is the meaning of the first day – Extreme pain
2.Your little love and tea-coffee / meals
You do not necessarily have to be a partner of each other. If you find out that your team member is going through periods , then you can offer them tea-coffee. It does not mean that you ask him to take a coffee date. You can bring tea or coffee to her or some of her sweet favorites. Now the turn comes partner – you make him tea and coffee in your own day during the day. Try if you can take the responsibility of making food that day or one day food can be ordered from outside or if there are more members in your house then give them the responsibility to cook for 1-2 days. Your tea / coffee cup can create magic. Try it sometimes.
3. Never use these Dialogue
Often I have heard many people say, “You are not the first girl, whose periods have come. Every month you have these, so far you should get used to it. ”
On one hand, my husband also said this thing and then I explained it comfortably to him. Now he pampers me every month. No doubt we have become use to periods but not the pain that comes with it. You suffer from headache or abdominal pain in life- but pain is more and more every time. It is not like you suffer from headache twice a month so after a while there will be no pan in the headache. One gets used to the routine occurrence of periods every month but no one can get used to the pain. Pain is pain, no matter how used to the routine u get.
4. During periods it should be all love and affection
Before the arrival of and during period girls have many mood swings. I know our mood swings are a way of life, but during this time things are a little hyped. Getting irritated on little things, feeling low and getting angry quickly – very common during periods. Try to make this time a little more good and loving. This will be great for your relationship.
5. Read a little more about Periods or discuss with your partner
The more you read about this, the more information you have about it. If you’ve doubt about something, then discuss this with your partner. Try to help her as much as you can during periods. Whether it is to bring sanitary pads, to make tea, to cook, to be treated with love, to ignore our mood swings. When everything about the world can be talked about, why not periods.
SO BOYS MAKE YOUR LOVED ONE PERIODS A HAPPY TIME!!!!
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Great written on periods..informative articles no doubt its very knowledgeable
Wow.. Very useful tips. I will discuss with my hubby too
A must read for all men here. I’ll make my husband read this article so that he can pamper me during these days of month..
Thank for sharing
It is an amazing article written on period. People should know more about this and they should not hesitate to talk about it.
A very nice and informative post. This is actually needed , even boys should understand what a girl goes through during her periods. Thanks for sharing
So well written ,highly appreciated …Yess it should be read by each n every boy or men .
Wow its great knowledge about period
You penned down so well. I agree with you. Many of my friends know about peirod pain. And of course my husband takes care of household chores on my periods. It’s much important to create awareness about the period pain.
Period talks are must for both boys and girls. They should know definitely know about this natural process. A very well written article
Very Informative. Every husband should read this
Your writing are in real & experience in practical. Really superb writing!
Very well Expressed post…MUST read for all wonderful Boys and especially Men .
Thank u priyanka …loved to read ur post .
Really wonderful writings! While reading this, experience our practical life.
Very well explained.. good knowledge
Very good information glad to know
Very useful article . I tell my hubby to read this article.
It is very good to periods
Very useful tips. Good written about period.
Thanx for sharing this topic… all men hv to read this…it will be great for relationship.. specially necessary for husband so tat he can pamper on those days……vey useful tips…tx
Yes…. In those days we really needed some extra pampaering… Allthough they cant reduce our pain and all… But their care.. Love make us happy in those days…
This is really useful tips and things during period women faces .
Though my husbend is well aware of everything but I will ask him to read this blog once and share.
Looking forward for more articles like this.
This is really useful tips and things during period women faces .
Though my husbend is well aware of everything but I will ask him to read this blog once and share.
Looking forward for more articles like this.
Very useful tips. Thanks for sharing.
I agree with you..we need to sensitize our boys and men regarding periods..parents need to be open with kids and shoukd respect women coz this is a natural process women goes thru..
Such a thoughtful article about women’s monthly cycle. It’s important that men know about this and treat women in their life with tender care. Thanks Priyanka for writing and sharing. Risky enjoyed reading
It really should be love and kisses always but even more important during the mood swings. A great awareness article.
Wonderful writing. Well said, I totally agree.
Very useful informatic article about periods.. ??
Wonderful explanation for boys. Yes its true everyone should have knowledge about periods. My husband also understands my situation and take care of my moodswings.
Amazing and informative post. Very useful and beneficial tips about periods. As we know that Sharing is caring. Great thoughts.
Very nicely written article with simplicity yet very important information.
IN periods a woman need extra care and love, It is not a disease but going through that pain make it tough for woman to cope up every month.
It is so important to talk about this topic without hesìtation. I went to Trade Fair, Pragati Maidan in year 2003 with my friends and my boyfriend who came there with his friends. Actually we all bunked our classes and we were in same college but he was 1 year senior. I got my periods few days early may be due to stress and I was not prepared for that. My boyfriend and I were very shy but somewhere in our hearts we knew we will marry eachother. Those were initial days of our relationship and that day I told him about my periods and he arranged me sanitary pads from a chemist somewhere..aah, whole day he tried to make sure if I was ok..if I need a coffee to ease myself . It was very unusual but it made our relationship strong and he cares about every minor issue I may have.
This is a very thoughtful post and should be read by each and every one. Periods makes women crave TLC and that should never be forgotten.
This is such a useful article a must read for all boys. Must say it is a well written and great article will share this with few of my friends (boys).
I must appreciate you with the sensibility that you have written this article. Love the usage of words and most importantly using it to express the feeling we go through every month in right sense. Very nice article.
It’s a very important knowledge about periods everyone should be aware about it. This knowledge is very helpful to make Our society more responsible about women health and also make many relationships more cheerful.
Nice article , girls really need some rest and pampering during that time ?
I am so glad you have written this post. It is extremely important for everyone to be made aware of and to be sensitised to periods and everything they entail. Thank you for sharing.
Every husband /boy should read this and realize this.. Very nice write-up with every bit of detail .. Really helpful.
Very well written and all points are up to the mark esp the third one. I hope after this, Boys change their thinking
Very well written and properly explained. Periods are not a taboo. It’s a completely natural process for females and there’s nothing to stay silent. We do go through physical pain and emotional stress every month and our partners should be supportive towards us specially during those days
A must read article for boys and men. They should also know about the periods and how women feel during these days. Good one!
Very well written. We need to help them know what periods mean to us. It’s a time when lots of hormonal changes occur and we need all love and support for the body changes.
Talking about periods is such a taboo. and men don’t seem to know anything at all. I too had this conversation with my husband once when he got offended with me complaining of pain. Glad I did that, now he pampers me every month 🙂 Great read for all men out there…
I think this is a must read post for many. Especially the partners who firmly believe in taking care of their loved ones. I think if we follow these pointers those tiring, painful days can become blessings for any woman.
Even though we get periods every month, it does not make any difference to the pain we go through. I am glad my husband is very caring and knows how to pamper me specifically during those days.
Yes, indeed! There are things related to Periods that every woman and man should know. Thanks for stating these points. And yes little pampering do no harm 🙂
Very nicely described a good amount of information on periods …will definitely share with others too?
A must read for boys. Or else they keep annoying us at the time of period. You’ve written it so well
I really wish guys read this post! At least my husband did…being a surgeon himself, he just says it’s so physiological!
This is such an informative article and Even though we all get periods every month, the pain we go through is a lot and the mood swings. Im glad that my bf takes care of me so well
The info. You provide is very useful for me.Thank you so much