
50 years ago, a large amount of parents were deprived of education and belongs to lower middle class family , But in spite of all the attempts these parents managed to survive and led their children towards higher education, some became doctors, engineers, Architect, professor, scientist and many other fields their children achieved the highest achievement. Those parents who helped their children to succeed in life can be positioned to a “A” Class Category, these “A” class parents are very supportive and hardworking, most of the parents went school bare foot, being at home they do used to do Farming to feed their family, bring drinking water to home after travelling a great distance, Children of these parents are used to help their parents in their daily jobs along with their routine studies, they also belongs to “A” class category of children with the spend of the time those a class category children became the B class parents
The reason behind becoming the B class category parents from A class children are mentioned below

- Parent’s did taught their children to be as hardworking as they, they nurtured their children with lot of love and affection, and fulfill all their demands.
- School Homework which were supposed to be done by their children were sufficed by the parents and this process continues from primary to higher secondary school.
- Parents got their children admitted to most expensive school/college in their city. To travel at their school/colleges children got of facility car and driver all time ready available, this situation never made them realize how much effort their parents have undertaken while going to their school.
- To meet the daily expenses children were provided packet money as per their demand, they were given freedom to go to club, movies hall, attend parties, without the consent of their parents and they were never restricted to spend money.
- These children never provide domestic support to their parents nor even do they do any kind of job outside of home.
- These children were served food on their dining table either by their parents or the helping staff at their home, even after having food they dint even put their dishware in the kitchen for washing, that also done by parents or helping staff.
- These children never managed to build up the self and inner confidence because they never faced any warfare in their life, all work were shared by their parents on their behalf, they never got the opportunity to face the problem whether small or major, as their parents were standing beside them to act as a shield and guard them from any difficulty.
Being nurtured in such a way these “B” class children becomes so much inefficient that they never get settled in their life even after attaining the age of 30 , they still remain dependable on their parents,
A severe gap has been created between the A class parents and B class parents, A Class parents can manage to live their life smoothly in other case b class parents cannot take care of themselves and their children are least interest to take care their parents. The biggest problem with B class parents is that they don’t become so capable to do something for society. Children of these class wants to live independently, they don’t bother about their parents how they will survive after retirement, and these make the entire journey of parents a “HELL”
If you want your children to become A class category parents then do take care of the following points.
- Don’t ever do love and affection beyond a certain limit, let them face their problem and handle the situation, that will build confidence in them.
- Try to build confidence to make them strong so they could face any kind of situation without of your help that is possible when you let them face their problem personally, you just have to be a torchbearer for them, let them decide what should technique they should follow to solve their problem so they will manage to build self confidence.
- Let them discover their inner self talent, what are they capable of, let them decide.
- Always teach tem good lesson, teach them about your God you follow , teach them to respect elders,
- Teach them their duty towards society, your country, world, and how to fulfill their duty, they should be given knowledge on these subjects.
- After grown up they should not only become rich but also being social towards to society.
- If your child follows discipline then only they can become a good citizen.
Helpful post dealing with kids is really a big tasktips you shared is very helpful
This is such a insightful post. I loved reading it and agree to each and every point
Pampering too much is not good.If they cry for some thing don’t purchase it immediately kids will take it as advantage and consideration every time,No problem let them cry for sometime they will calm down later.
Teach them to say -Thank U and Sorry
Teach them to respect all and to share with others.
Thnx for useful information.
Such great tips to just give good upbringing and even enjoy parenthood
Yes agree with you , our kids have to be a discipline child then only they will be good citizen in life
I so agree to the parenting advice you have given in this post. Gone are the days when parents didn’t have means to provide the best of parenting. But today we have means and a strong education backing us to ensure that we become the kind of parents our children deserve. I really liked the whole idea behind this blog. Very well thought post.
A wonderful post for parents indeed! In the effort to provide the best for our children, we forget that our children are missing out on some life lessons.
Thanks for the useful information
Wonderful post dear…
Really now a days we parents don’t get enough time for our children…. And we try to full fill that empty place by giving them enough they want… But this is not good….
Your post will help to open our eyes….
Thank u again for this beautiful post dear….
The thought is good but I don;t agree with certain reason mentioned for becoming B class category like nurturing their children with lot of love and affection is what every parent does and inherent. The point is to keep a balance in discipline and love. Similarly, I don;t think that the stuff/home work which school gives to students liek art & craft, projects etc is as per level of children. School shall make them practice for it in school itself rather than home work while I totally agree with the points stated to become A class parents. We have to make our child embrace the world . Confidence and hard work are the key to success and we should teach them about it.
Nice information, really very helpful.
Thanks for information, nice post and very helpful too.
I Agree about not overdoing love and affection. We have to make our kids more independent and confident so they can face the world without any hassles. There should be balance between affection and dìscipline.
I agree with the post very much Like you said over affection always kills independent thinking. I firmly beleive overpampering removes confidence from a child to face issue in life.
There is no wrong or right parenting I feel, in the same house kids can grow up with completely different temperaments.
That’s a very informative and helpful post for all the parents. Thanks for sharing
Overpampering and providing with all sorts of materialistic comfort is the mantra of parents nowadays. Yes we are nurturing kids the wrong way.
In my view this article is extremely important and I have already shared it with my family. Whatever points mentioned are cent percent true and need to be followed by one and all.
Great tips Priyanka , I loved that you focussed on raising kids practically and allowing them to face the problems, fail and then find solutions.
We have the responsibility to bring up our kids in the best possible way so they grow to be well mannered, kind hearted individuals. Completely agree with your advise.
I agree that parents need to love their kids but also teach them the importance of the things they’ve been blessed with.
The post describes each point with utmost care, discipline is most imp which today’s kids lack tho I don’t categorize them but yes we need to teach them
Raising responsibile human beings demand lots of hard work, love and dedication. Your article is definitely insightful.
I somehow differ in viewpoint used to differentiate class A & class B parents. In my opinion, we should not judge any parent neither categorize them in such a manner. Also, you haven’t considered the difference in time periods and the requirements of the today’s world while categorizing these parents. There should never be a comparison.
This really a wonderful post and I second each and every point mentioned by you here
Nice blog with informative parenting tips. Really going to follow suggestions to make my children good human beings and a class parents and children.
Loved this parenting lessons. Perfect for parents to be.
I both agree and disagree. I think all parents are placed in different contexts and situations and we can’t really put them in fixed categories. But I do agree that over pampering kids does more harm than good and we as parents need to learn when to step back and let kids take the charge.
I completely agree with your words.. It is not good to pamper child much, this will somewhere ruin them ..
This post is so essential for all the parents. I totally agree with the fact that children are not taught to provide domestic support to their parents. Even the kids abroad make meals at home.
A most need post in today’s date .. pampering kids just spoil them…so beautifully described the gap of two catogeey parents…..it’s high temperature to get aware.
I agree with u,we should not pamper our child as they ruin their self confidence,n make them dependent
Good information for parenting .. It’s really helpful for our child.. It’s really good message.. Thank you for sharing …
Nice and informative information